The Way I Feel Is Everything...

By paying attention to the way you feel, and then choosing thoughts that feel the very best, you are managing your own vibration, which means you are controlling your own point of attraction — which means you are creating your own reality. 

It's such a wonderful thing to realize that you can create your own reality without sticking your nose in everybody else's, and that the less attention you give to everybody else's reality, the purer your vibration is going to be — and the more you are going to be pleased with what comes to you.

--- Abraham

Freedom, Growth & Joy: My Triad Of Intentions

If your dominant intent is to feel joy while you are doing the work, your triad of intentions—freedom, growth and joy—will come quickly and easily into alignment. 

See your "career" as one of creating a joyful life experience. 

You are not a creator of things or a regurgitator of what someone else has created or a gatherer of stuff. 

You are a creator, and the subject of your creation is your joyful life experience. 

That is your mission. 

That is your quest. 

That is why you are here.

--- Abraham

Simple Words From Abraham

The basis of your life is absolute freedom, the goal is joy, and the result of that perfect combination is motion forward, or growth. 

Your goal is to find objects of attention that let your cork raise.

--- Abraham

The Solution

Any time you have physical discomfort of any kind, whether you call it emotional, or physical pain within your body, it always, always means the same thing: "I have a desire that is summoning Energy, but I have a belief that is not allowing so I've created resistance in my body." 

The solution, every single time, to the releasing of discomfort or pain — is the relaxation and the reaching for the feeling of relief.

--- Abraham

From The Secret Daily Teachings

Know yourself! Watch how you manifest the small things in life and think about how you felt inside with those things. Think about how easily they came. You will find that you thought of a small thing once and never thought about it again, and then it manifested.

What really happened was you didn't think any thoughts or speak any words which contradicted what you wanted, so the law of attraction was able to do its work.

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

Abraham Speaks

You cannot be separated from that which you are calling God… People hear us say, "Reach for the thought that feels the best." And they think, "Oh no, I need to listen to what God wants." 

But aren't we talking about the same thing? Aren't your emotions guiding you to that Connection? 

And doesn't the word God just set you off on all kinds of tangents that don't have anything to do with your relationship with that which is this Eternal Energy of Love that is your Source?

--- Abraham

The Process Of Manifesting

In the same way that there is not an instant wanted thing manifesting in your experience, there is not instant unwanted thing happening in your experience. 

It takes some adapting to vibrations. If you've managed to hold anything, wanted or unwanted, for 17 seconds — there is a coalescing of thought that takes you a little closer to the vibration of whatever you are turning your attention to. 

Those 17 second increments, are not discernable. And that's why, when you get into that place, it feels like instant manifestation. 

Just like when you get into that negative place, it feels like instant manifestation. 

It's like, "Where did that come from? Seemed like it just sort of snuck up on me," instead of snuck up over a long time.

--- Abraham

The Big Picture

When people thought the world was flat, it wasn't that their thinking was distorted, (The data that they were collecting gave them that information.) it was that they were not broadsighted enough to step back far enough to see the big picture. 

And that's what we see with so many of you: You are so close to the reality that you are creating, that you sometimes can't see the bigger picture.

--- Abraham

It's Fun To Be Here

I see myself in perfect health. I see myself in absolute prosperity. 

I see myself invigorated with life, appreciating, again, this physical life experience which I wanted so very much as I decided to be a physical Being. 

It is glorious to be here, a physical Being, making decisions with my physical brain but accessing the power of the Universe through the power of the Law of Attraction.

--- Abraham

I'm Keeping My Eyes On The prize

“The person with a fixed goal, a clear picture of his desire, or an ideal always before him, causes it, through repetition, to be buried deeply in his subconscious mind and is thus enabled, thanks to its generative and sustaining power, to realize his goal in a minimum of time and with a minimum of physical effort. 

Just pursue the thought unceasingly. 

Step by step you will achieve realization, for all your faculties and powers become directed to that end.” 



- Claude M. Bristol

Using Emotion Wisely

Most people don't realize how much emotion they put into what they don't want.

When you speak to a friend and you tell them all about an "awful" situation, you are putting emotion into what you don't want.

When you react to an event negatively, with the response that it is "terrible", you are putting emotion into what you don't want.

Emotion is the energy that manifests your thoughts and brings them to life! Make sure you direct your emotion wisely.

From The Secret Daily Teachings by Rhonda Byrne

It's All Up To Me

No one can deny you or grant you anything. 

It all comes to you by virtue of your vibration.

--- Abraham

It Pays To Be Myself

“When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” 

- Lao Tzu

Being Grateful At All Times

Remember, if you are criticizing, you are not being grateful.

 If you are blaming, you are not being grateful. If you are complaining, you are not being grateful. 

If you are feeling tension, you are not being grateful. If you are rushing, you are not being grateful. If you are in a bad mood, you are not being grateful.

Gratitude can transform your life. 

Are you allowing minor things to get in the way of the life you deserve?

 From The Secret Daily Teachings 

by Rhonda Byrne

Abraham Speaks

Let others vibrate as they vibrate and want the best for them. Never mind how they're flowing to you. 

You concentrate on how you're flowing. 

Because one who is connected to the Energy Stream is more powerful, more influential than a million who are not.

--- Abraham

Remember Walt Disney

"All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them."

- Walt Disney


 
Pursuing a dream can be one of the most difficult things in life to do. Many of 
us may think that we are bound by the realities of life, instead of seeing them 
as obstacles in life that can be overcome. Walt Disney himself faced many 
challenges in the creation of his empire, and in the beginning the creation of 
Disney's empire looked very bleak. With a mountainous load of hard work, 
dedication, and perseverance, Walt Disney created a successful empire that is 
even more affluent than when he was even alive and well to see it. 

Disney is a prime example of how someone's dream can come true as long as we are 
courageous enough to pursue it. There will be many negative voices and obstacles 
in the way of achieving our dreams. People in our lives, our own failures, and 
other bumps along the road will surely test our resolve, but if we just remain 
courageous at all times, the successful achievement of our dreams is sure to 
come!

Joy Is The Measure Of My Success

The standard of success in life isn't the things. 

It isn't the money or the stuff. 

It is absolutely the amount of joy that you feel.

--- Abraham

Feeling Good Is My Only Goal

If you had one goal, and that was to feel good, you would never again need to hear another word from anyone. 

You would live successfully and happily and in a way of fulfilling your life's purpose ever after.

--- Abraham

Imagining & Visualizing

As you imagine and visualize and verbalize your new story, in time you will believe the new story, and when that happens, the evidence will flow swiftly into your experience. A belief is only a thought you continue to think; and when your beliefs match your desires, then your desires must become your reality. 

There is no physical body, no matter what the conditions, that cannot achieve an improved condition. Nothing else in your experience responds as quickly as your own physical body to your patterns of thought. 

--- Abraham 

Success Is Always With Me

“Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.”

- Winston Churchill

Individuality

You are really individual beings, with very special talents, and it would be nice if teachers had the time, or parents had the awareness or skill, to see the children as the very individual, very special beings that they are. 

So that rather than trying to drum them into one category, they are, instead, appreciating the special insight that each child brings to the sea of diversity and contrast which is the stuff that creation comes from.

--- Abraham

Emotions...

In your moving yourself up the Emotional Scale, your business will begin to prosper in new and profound ways!                   Your business, your relationships, your finances cannot grow beyond your emotional response - nothing can grow beyond your emotional response. 

Everything matches your Set-point of emotions on every subject that exists.

--- Abraham

Reflecting Back On Today...

After a long, and almost difficult day, where moments of discomfort kept showing up in a variety of places, and having to deal with people who seemed to be determined to share their negative vibrations with me, I look back and find myself unscathed, unharmed, still happy and grateful to know that I did not succumb to their negativity. 

People will come and go, but my focus stays the same: happiness and joy, no matter what the situation looks like. It always gets better and better... 

Than You Universe!

All Roads Lead To Success

Don't decry the "effort that failed."

All things lead to your highest good. You just may not know it yet.

--Neale Donald Walsch

My Desire Summons The Solution

Anything that brings you to a decision will be answered. 

The stronger the decision is, the faster it's answered. 

So if you're in a situation where it seems life or death, and the desire is strong, it is answered now, because it must be answered now to be answered at all.

--- Abraham

The Universe Knows...

The Universe knows all things and is responding to the vibration that you are sending. 

When you are sending your vibration on purpose, you are orchestrating what the Universe is aligning for you.

--- Abraham

More From Abraham

Find something to feel good about and get out of the way, and allow the cells to receive what they've been asking for. 

That is the key to healing.

--- Abraham

Imagine

Leverage your time more by spending a little more time every day imagining and a lot less time every day doing. 

Do a little more imagining and a little more less doing. 

Until eventually most of what's happening is happening in the cool, calm, anticipatory state. 

Just imagine yourself into the successes, and watch what happens. 

Imagine a little more and act a little less.

--- Abraham

Abraham Speaks

When you feel enthusiasm to do something, it means you've lined up the Energy, and you are being inspired to take action from that point of alignment. 

When you don't feel like doing it, don't push yourself, because your effort is not worth it. 

But, when you line up the Energy, the feeling of procrastination goes away.

--- Abraham

Abraham Speaks

If you have the ability to desire it, the Universe has the ability to deliver it. 

You've just got to line up with what you want, which means - be as happy as you can be as often as you can be there, and let everything else take care of itself.

--- Abraham

Excited Anticipation

The Universe is abundant with everything that you want. 

It's not testing you. 

It's benevolently providing for you. 

But you are the orchestrater. 

You are the definer, and you do it through your joyous anticipation. 

If there is an emotion that you are wanting to foster, that would serve you very, very well, it is positive expectation. 

It is excited anticipation.

--- Abraham

Words To Appreciate

"Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and know that everything in this life has a purpose."

 - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

WANTING IS A VERY GOOD THING!

The entire Universe is set up to produce wanting within you! 

You cannot squelch wanting. You are born wanters. 

Wanting is a good thing. 

Write that down in big letters: WANTING IS A VERY GOOD THING!

--- Abraham

I Can Go Anywhere I Want To Be

Wherever you are, is just fine…You can get to wherever you want to be from wherever you are… 

It’s time to stop measuring where you are in relationship to where anybody else is. 

The only factor that has anything to do with you is where you are in relationship with where you want to be.

--- Abraham

Abraham Speaks

Fear is the emotion that comes forth when you are choosing a thought that is not up to speed with the desire that you hold. 

You're going to feel it and you're going to feel it stronger. It is the reason that the word "terror" or "terrorist", or "terrorizing" is such an appropriate word. 

It is not only in the action that you witness, or that you hear about, it is in the speculation that begins to run rampant. 

The power of the terrorists is much greater in things that never come to be than it ever is in the things that do come to be.

--- Abraham

I Create In My Own Experience

You are the only one who creates in your experience—no one else. 

Everything that comes to you comes by the power of your thought. If there are changes you would like to make, it will be of great value to begin telling a different story—not only about your body, but about all subjects that have been troubling to you. 

As you begin to positively focus, getting to feel so good about so many subjects, you will begin to feel the power that creates worlds flowing through you.

--- Abraham

My Future Just Gets Better

Make the best of it. 

When you make the best of whatever you're focused upon, your future will be better than your now. 

If each moment you're making the best of what-is, no matter what it is, you make the best of it; make the best of it; make the best of it—your future just gets better and better and better, and better.

--- Abraham

From The Secret Daily Teachings

There is no doubt that when using the law of attraction for the good of everyone, you are connecting yourself to great power. 

However, the law is also available to you individually so that you may live your life to the fullest. When you live your life to the fullest you have so much more to give others.

Your pain and misery does not help the world. But your joy and your life lived fully uplifts the world.

 

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

Everything Starts As A Thought

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought.   If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him.   If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him"

 - Buddha

Abraham Speaks

Physical pain is just an extension of emotion. It's all the same thing. There are two emotions. One feels good and one feels bad.

Which means, you're connected to your Energy Stream or you're not allowing your Energy Stream.

--- Abraham

Deep Words Indeed

‎"You can start with nothing. And out of nothing, and out of no way, a way will be made".


 - Michael Beckwith

Spirituality Is First

‎"We are not human beings on a spiritual journey. We are spiritual beings on a human journey."

— Dr. Stephen Covey

From The Secret Daily Teachings

If you want to attract a better job or anything better than what you currently have, it is important to understand how the law of attraction works.

You know that to bring something better you must imagine what that better thing looks like in your mind, and then live in that picture as though it is here now.

But you should also know that if you complain about your current job, for example, and continue to focus on all the negative things, you will never bring the better job to you.

You must look for the things to be grateful for in your current job.

Each thing you find to be grateful for is helping to bring that better job to you.

That is really working the law!

From The Secret Daily Teachings by Rhonda Byrne

Abraham Speaks

Each of us gets to have our own perspective from which we desire or prefer, and Source Energy answers every single one of us. 

There's no shortage of Source; there's no shortage of answers; there's no shortage of substance. 

There's no shortage of all of the stuff or non-stuff that any of us wants - there's no shortage of it. It expands proportionately to our ability to desire it.

--- Abraham

Right Now Is What Counts

Give up waiting as a state of mind. 

When you catch yourself slipping into waiting...snap out of it. 

Come into the present moment. Just be and enjoy being.

Eckhart Tolle

From The Secret Daily Teachings

Begin your day by feeling grateful. 

Be grateful for the bed you just slept in, the roof over your head, the carpet or floor under your feet, the running water, the soap, your shower, your toothbrush, your clothes, your shoes, the refrigerator that keeps your food cold, the car that you drive, your job, your friends. 

Be grateful for the stores that make it so easy to buy the things you need, the restaurants, the utilities, services, and electrical appliances that make your life effortless. 

Be grateful for the magazines and the books that you read. 

Be grateful for the chair that you sit on, and the pavement that you walk on. 

Be grateful for the weather, the sun, the sky, the birds, the trees, the grass, the rain, and the flowers.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

 

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

Imagination

Your hands are tied in action, but your hands are not tied in imagination — and everything springs forth from the imagination. 

Everything. 

--- Abraham

From The Secret Daily Teachings

There is a difference between feeling gratitude and appreciation for something, and feeling attachment to something. 

Appreciation and gratitude are states of pure love, while attachment contains fear - fear of losing or not having what you are attached to. 

When it comes to something you want in your life, appreciation and gratitude attracts, and attachment pushes away. 

If you are feeling afraid that you will not get what you want, or losing what you have, then you have attachment.

To remove the attachment, keep shifting yourself into a state of appreciation and gratitude, until you can feel that the fear has gone.

 

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

Magical Weekend

Every one of my cells exudes gratitude. I am having a magical weekend. Non-Stop fun, even when I'm supposedly working...

The Secret Daily Teachings

The fastest way to receive is to give, because giving starts the reciprocal action of receiving. 


We all receive according to how much we give. 


Give the best of you everywhere you go. 

Give a smile. 

Give thanks. 

Give kindness. 

Give love. 


From The Secret Daily Teachings 

by Rhonda Byrne

Words To Ponder

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough.

You must want it with an exuberance that erupts through the skin & joins the energy that created the world.

--Sheila Graham

From The Secret Daily Teachings

You must be happy now to bring happiness into your life through the law of attraction. 

It's a simple formula. Happiness attracts happiness. 

Yet people use so many excuses as to why they can't be happy. 

They use excuses of debt, excuses of health, excuses of relationships, and excuses of all sorts of things as to why they can't use this simple formula. But the formula is the law.

No matter what the excuse, unless you begin to feel happy despite it, you cannot attract happiness. The law of attraction is saying to you, "Be happy now, and as long as you keep doing that, I will give you unlimited happiness."

 

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne
The Secret...

Words By Neale Donald Walsch

You are the caller and the called. 


The changer and the changed. 


The beginning and the end. 


That is what you are, because that is what God is. 


And you are made in the image and the likeness of God. 



--Neale Donald Walsch

A Clear Example...

“If you employed study, thinking, and planning time daily, you could develop and use the power that can change the course of your destiny.” 

- W. Clement Stone 

Say Yes To All The Good Stuff

Say yes when you see something you love. 

Say yes when you hear something you love. 


Say yes when you taste something you love. 

Say yes when you smell something you love. 


Say yes when you touch something you love. 


It doesn’t matter if you have it or not, say yes to it, because then you are choosing it!


 From The Power by Rhonda Byrne

Words To Appreciate

The secret of getting ahead is getting started, the secret of getting started 
is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small tasks, and then starting 
on the first one.  

--Mark Twain

A Constant Feeling Of Gratitude

I decided that my attitude of gratitude will be consistent, in a constant attempt to match the abundance of my Source... 
During every waking moment, I automatically say "Thank You", and take a deep breath, my eyes look for thing to appreciate...it never ends....What a wonderful feeling!

The Magic Of Gratitude

To understand the power and the magic of gratitude, you have to experience it for yourself.

So why not begin by deciding to find 100 things a day to be grateful for?

If you practice gratitude every day it won't take long before gratitude is your natural state of being, and when that happens you will have unlocked one of the greatest secrets to life.

From The Secret Daily Teachings

by Rhonda Byrne

Thankfulness Is The Way To Go

"If you want to turn your life around try thankfulness.  It will change your life 

mightily".

-Gerald Good

How Sweet It Is...

Never mind what-is. Imagine it the way you want it to be so that your vibration is a match to your desire. When your vibration is a match to your desire, all things in your experience will gravitate to meet that match every time. 

--- Abraham 


Sweeeet!

Allowing Abundance...

Many people are approaching life from the flawed premise that if they work hard and struggle long and pay a big enough price, they will then be rewarded with financial well-being. And since they do not realize that in their struggle they are denying themselves alignment with the abundance they seek, when the abundance does not come, they attribute it to luck or favoritism that is being directed away from them and toward another.

But there is no luck or favoritism. There is only allowing or resisting, letting in or keeping out the abundance that you deserve.

As you gradually train your own thoughts into those of positive expectation, as you align with thoughts of worthiness and Well-Being, as you align with your true power by seeking good-feeling thoughts—you will no longer offer resistance to your own abundance. And when your resistance stops, your abundance will come. A flood of good-feeling ideas and possibilities will flow to you. Opportunities and propositions will be plentiful. And soon you will stand in knowing amusement that all of this was always there within your reach, but in your resistant state of attraction, you were not yet able to experience it . . . but then, it came—not because of your struggle but because of your ease.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide # 535

My Soundtrack For Today: Men At Work - Who Can It Be Now?

Opportunity is knocking...Life's Good! Who Can It Be Now?

The Happiest Man Alive Is Me!

“I am the happiest man alive. I have that in me that can convert poverty to 
riches, adversity to prosperity, and I am more invulnerable than Achilles; 
fortune hath not one place to hit me.” 

- Sir Thomas Browne, Religio Medici (1642)

Abraham Speaks Words Of Profound Wisdom

Your children are genius creators who have just arrived from Nonphysical, who are feeling empowered.    And if they would be left to their own devices, they would not go astray. 

They would maintain worthiness; they would maintain their feeling of Well-Being. 

They would thrive, unless it was taught otherwise to them. In other words, if others don't do something to change their vibration, they are in a vibration of thriving.

--- Abraham

Love Is The Only Way

The law of attraction cannot change anything in your life that you hate, because hate prevents the change from coming. 

Since the law is giving us exactly what we are putting out, when you hate something the law must continue to give you more of what you hate. 

You will not be able to move away from it. Love is the only way.

If you focus completely on the things you love, then you are on your way to a beautiful life.

 

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

Abraham Speaks About Dollars

Dollars aren't the root of happiness but they are not the root of evil either. 

They are the result of how somebody lines up Energy. 

If you don't want dollars, don't attract dollars.      

But we say to you, your criticism of others who have dollars, holds you in a place where things you do want, like wellness and clarity and Well-being, can't come to you either.

--- Abraham

My Puppy Marky

I'm really thankful because my puppy Marky just turned two years old, he is adorable and always so eager to show me his unconditional love. I am very lucky. 

I'm Just Having Another Great Day!

Today is a great day.  I realize I can count on the support of (more and more) individuals who radiate life, love and light.

People who wake up every day and make the world a better place.

My heart is rejoicing, my entire being feels thankful and more willing every time to take charge of my destiny, create, uplift others and spread happiness.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

All Is Well, I'm Loved

You're not ever going to teach them how to vibrate, nor would you want to change them all to a place of vibrating just like you.      Your work is not to fix them; they are not broken.        Your work is to choose from among all of that which feels best to you, and fixate on it as long as it gives you pleasure and joy.        And in doing so, you will align with the Energy of your Source, and you will live a magnificent experience.    You just have to not let your joy depend upon what anybody else is living, cause that'll get you every time.

--- Abraham

That's the simplicity of life: focusing on being happy, feeling joy and pleasure, with the certainty that all is well and we are loved.  

I'm Conciously Taking Inspired Action

From The Secret Daily Teachings

Be aware of the big difference between inspired action and activity. Activity comes from the brain-mind and is rooted in disbelief and lack of faith - you are taking action to "make" your desire happen. Inspired action is allowing the law to work through you and to move you.

Activity feels hard. Inspired action feels wonderful.

 

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

I'm Allowing Everything I Desire

Your conclusion that there isn't enough of something—whether it is enough land, or money, or clarity—stems from you learning, without meaning to, a vibration that holds you apart from what you want. There is no limitation. If you identify a desire for it, Source recognizes your desire, and immediately begins to deliver it to you. And it will manifest in the variety, in the fullness, and in the way that you, and only you, learn to allow it.

--- Abraham

It Is My Natural State To Be Happy

I'm going to be happy. I'm going to skip. I'm going to be glad. I'm going to smile a lot. I'm going to be easy. I'm going to count my blessings. I'm going to look for reasons to feel good. I'm going to dig up positive things from the past. I'm going to look for positive things where I stand. I'm going to look for positive things in the future. It is my natural state to be a happy person. It's natural for me to love and to laugh. This is what is most natural for me. I am a happy person!

--- Abraham

Good Things Are Happening

Today expect something good to happen to you no matter what occurred yesterday.

Realize the past no longer holds you captive.

It can only continue to hurt you if you hold on to it. Let the past go. A simply abundant world awaits.

--Sarah Breathnach

America - "You Can Do Magic"

I Can Do Magic

You can do magic you can have anything that you desire.

Ready

There isn't anything that I cannot be or do or have, and I have a huge Nonphysical staff that's ready to assist me, and I'm ready.

--- Abraham

I Am In Charge

Your life is right now! It's not later! It's not in that time of retirement. It's not when the lover gets here. It's not when you've moved into the new house. It's not when you get the better job. Your life is right now. It will always be right now. You might as well decide to start enjoying your life right now, because it's not ever going to get better than right now—until it gets better right now!

--- Abraham

How reassuring is to know that right now, in this very second, I have the power to affect the future, everything that comes to me.   I might as well just be happy and allow the goodness to flow...I'm in charge. I am very fortunate indeed.

Imagination Precedes Creation

“Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will.” 


- George Bernard Shaw

Vibration & Perception Go Hand In Hand

You are the owner of all that you perceive. 


But you can't perceive apart from your vibration. 


Feel your way, little-by-little, into a greater sense of abundance by looking for the treasures that the Universe is offering you on a day-to-day basis. 

--- Abraham

The Promise Of Law Of Attraction

It's not your work to make anything happen. 


It's your work to dream it and let it happen. Law of Attraction will make it happen. 


In your joy, you create something, and then you maintain your vibrational harmony with it, and the Universe must find a way to bring it about. 


That's the promise of Law of Attraction.

--- Abraham

From The Secret Daily Teachings

It is so important that you are grateful for everything in your life.

Many people focus on the one thing they want and then forget to be grateful for all the things they have.

Without gratitude you cannot achieve anything through the law of attraction, because if you are not emanating gratitude from your being, then by default you are emanating ungratefulness.

Be proactive and use the frequency of your being to receive what you want.

May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

Abraham Speaks

By Default, I Could Have Attracted Unwanted Relationships... Many of the relationships or experiences you have attracted you would not have deliberately attractedif you had been doing it on purpose, but much of your attraction is not done by deliberate intent, but rather by default. . . . It is important to understand that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not. And chronic thoughts about unwanted things invite, or ask for, matching experiences. The Law of Attraction makes it so.

--- Abraham